Step-by-step guide for first-time homebuyers including getting pre-approved, finding agents, offers, and closing.
Buying your first home in Cary is exciting and overwhelming. This guide walks you through the process step-by-step, from pre-approval through closing.

Before house hunting, get mortgage pre-approval from at least 2-3 lenders. Pre-approval shows sellers you're serious, gives you spending limit, and locks loan rate quotes. Process takes 1-2 weeks and costs nothing. Lenders review credit, income, assets, and debts to determine maximum loan amount. You can get pre-approval in person or online from most major lenders.
Aim for pre-approval in the $450K-$500K range to comfortably afford Cary homes. Cary's median price ($580K) requires substantial down payments for first-time buyers. Budget $450K-$600K max to maintain 30% debt-to-income ratio.
A local Cary real estate agent is invaluable. They know neighborhoods, market conditions, negotiation strategies, and have connections with other agents. Interview 2-3 agents before choosing. Ask about their experience, Cary sales record, market knowledge, and client references. Choose someone responsive, knowledgeable, and who you trust.
Visit multiple Cary neighborhoods during different times of day. Research school zones, commute times, and community character. Popular first-time buyer neighborhoods include MacGregor Downs ($450K-$800K), Carpenter Village ($350K-$600K), Cary Park ($400K-$700K), and new construction western communities. Consider your lifestyle, commute, and budget when narrowing choices.
Once you find a home, your agent prepares an offer. Standard offer includes:
In Cary's competitive market, expect competition. Multiple offers are common for desirable homes. Make your offer competitive: strong earnest money (3%), reasonable contingencies, and flexible closing date improve offer strength. Be prepared to walk away if homes consistently exceed your budget—discipline matters.

After offer acceptance, hire a home inspector ($400-$600) to review the property. Inspectors check roof, HVAC, plumbing, electrical, foundation, and appliances. Inspection takes 2-3 hours. Review inspection results with your agent. Use inspection results to negotiate repairs or credits. Don't skip inspection—it protects you from hidden problems.
Your lender orders an appraisal ($500-$700) to verify the home's value supports your loan amount. If appraisal comes below purchase price, you have several options: renegotiate price, put more down, or walk away (if appraisal contingency included). Appraisals typically take 1-2 weeks.
Work with your lender to finalize loan details. Provide any additional documentation requested. Lock your interest rate (usually 30-60 days before closing). Shop closing costs among lenders—they vary significantly ($2,500-$5,000+). Review Loan Estimate document detailing rate, terms, fees, and monthly payment.
Title company (provided by lender) searches property records to ensure seller actually owns the home and no liens exist. Title insurance protects you from future claims. This process takes 1-2 weeks.
Day before closing, walk through the home to verify seller completed promised repairs, included agreed-upon appliances, and home is in expected condition. This is final chance to catch problems before closing.

At closing, you sign mortgage documents, receive keys, and officially own the home. Closing takes 1-2 hours. Bring photo ID and cashier's check for down payment and closing costs (or wire funds per lender instructions). Review Closing Disclosure document (final summary of loan terms and costs) days before closing; verify accuracy.
Down payment (10-20% of purchase price): $50K-$120K on $500K home. Closing costs (2-5% of purchase price): $10K-$25K. Inspection, appraisal, title, insurance: $1.5K-$2.5K. Total cash needed at closing: $65K-$150K depending on down payment percentage.
Buying your first Cary home is achievable with preparation, patience, and good guidance. The process moves quickly; being pre-approved, working with a good agent, and being ready to act when you find the right home are essential. Welcome to Cary homeownership!